Here is the quote which says 'fake it unless you make it'.
Let me tell you it applies for fake things, the real self of ours knows what the said confidence is.
I sometimes even thinks this word confidence creats problem of pretending. We 'try' to be what we are not and actually loose ourself doing so.
There is real finding of you when we start observing ourself what we are and where we are going, I mean we have to consciously practice the controlling our thoughts and that too being toughtless.
This is really surprising but true.
I personally feel that finding the real self and observing spiritual self of real you make you procrastinate the karma of your life but here is the doubt of my mind that may be tries to analyze the situation and tries to an conclusion and hence make you depart from your goal, the real goal.
There is something deep about spirituality but this spirituality should drive the purpose and should be a seed of your good thoughts.
We try to find out god but the basic findings start with controlling our ego which leads to divine unknown.
Unknown I say because when we name it we distract our mind to label it but instead there should be unknown.
Knowing this unknown will surely lead to oneness but only thing to remember is not to be in a cycle of this labeling!
